A sad memory

Hi everyone,

I had this set up to repeat an article about my dad on April 30 but other posts moved in ahead of it. Here it is a little late.
John and Neva Harrison
My father, John Harrison, was a good man. He was a good son too. His father died when John was twelve. At age sixteen he started working part-time to help his mother and two sisters get by. His first job was on the excavation crew for a company that laid gas mains. He carried a water bucket and dipper to thirsty men in the ditches. To break in the new kid, the men took turns yelling, “Water boy!” first from one end of the line, then the other. John’s father and uncles were all veterinarians, his aunts all nurses. John didn’t have the opportunity to pursue a career. Immediately after graduating from high school he went to work fulltime for the city. During the next sixteen years, he never missed a day.

Like many people, John dreamed of having his own business. In 1945, he joined with Bill Pauly and Guy Hall to create a company that manufactured concrete blocks for the construction industry. Bill was a carpenter, big and rough, proud of his skills and his raw strength. My dad was six feet tall but slender, bald, bespectacled, an office type good at math and record keeping. Guy worked for a lumber yard and didn’t become an active member of the firm until years later.

Bill and my dad built the block manufacturing building at the back of the lot they leased at 928 S. Glenstone in Springfield, Missouri. Bill knew how to do it so he was foreman. During construction, Dad was a walking disaster. He would come home after a day of back breaking work with cuts on his head from banging into low beams, his hands so blistered that he could hardly make a fist. But day by day the plant took shape and eventually they got it done. My father was proud of what he had helped accomplish. My first job was cycling down weeds at the front of the lot with Bill’s son Billy. We were eight years old.

Glenstone Block Company grew slowly, but it lasted. A lot of men raised their families on their pay from the firm. Sometimes Dad would take the whole crew to the river to fish. I remember riding on a flatbed truck down bumpy roads, trailing dust on those following us to the water. On one occasion, Bill nailed the head of a large catfish to the office door. Dad was furious. Bill couldn’t stop laughing.

In October, 1972 Dad became the last member of the original three partners. After running the company for twenty-seven years, he was ready to retire. In February, 1973 I accepted his offer to join him. I resigned from my position in Kansas City as Editorial Manager for Hallmark Cards and moved my family to Springfield. I managed the company as president for thirty-five years until I sold it in 2008.

John Harrison’s dream grew even after his death in 1989. The company expanded until it had one hundred employees operating two block plants, a distribution yard, a precast plant, and six hardware stores in five communities. After I sold the company, the new owner – also a block manufacturer – shut down the operation when the economy wouldn’t support it. The buildings, including the modern replacement of the plant that John and Bill built sixty-two years earlier, fell silent. The yard, once stacked with inventory, lay vacant. Vagrants came. Vandals stripped copper from machinery, stole steel pallets, and covered the walls with graffiti.

Monday night, April 30, 2012, someone set fire to the plant. I don’t understand how some people are capable of such destruction. I hope that person is caught. I hope he gets the help he needs before he hurts someone, before he destroys the memory-filled property of another family. My dad was a man of his word. He was liked, admired, and trusted by everyone. He was a loving husband to Neva and father to my sister Jule and me, a dedicated fisherman, and an honest friend. He also believed that you don’t spend your life feeling sorry for yourself or blaming others. The loss of his father when he was so young changed his life forever. He didn’t become a veterinarian. He started a company that supported hundreds of men and women over a period of six decades. In John Harrison’s world, you did the best you could with the cards you were dealt. The fire the other night has brought back many wonderful recollections of my father. For that, at least, I can thank the man who burned down Dad’s block plant.

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11 comments on “A sad memory

  1. I started to write about this essay being ‘a moving tribute,’ but what a hoary flat tire of a cliché! Except, your wonderful words were just THAT [wait – how about ‘an affecting testimonial’?] and I even felt my tear ducts twitch, maybe squirted a molecule or two. For me, old crab that I am, that’s downright bawling.

  2. I’m sorry for the fire, and don’t understand either why someone would take satisfaction from doing such it, but love that you’ve turned the loss into sweet memories of your father, how he made his life that started with tragedy and turned it into something good. Your pride and love shines through! Thank you for sharing, David!

  3. There are people who are born sociopaths (the true clinical definition of “antisocial”). People like us who are not antisocial will never understand those who vandalize/murder/hurt other people and property.

    Thank you for sharing the story about your amazing father with us! The world would actually be close to paradise if everyone were like him.

    • Thank you, Teresa. It’s hard to imagine how such hurtful traits develop. I feel sorry for people like that even as I hate what they do.

  4. Sad but moving tribute to your father. I liked reading about who helped to make you so special. Sorry about the fire–a——-😁

    • Hi Marie! Thank you for coming by today. It’s always a pleasure to hear from you. And, uh, thank you for the kinds words, he ah-shucked.

  5. that was very interesting information. I have heard some or all of it before, but, i always appreciate relearning or being reminded of things about grrandaddy. He was an interesting person & a wonderful grandfather. I think of him often too. love, Robin

  6. Well done, David. We were so fortunate to have him for our father. In fact, I believe that everyone who came in contact with him were enriched by having known him.

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